I feel like I’ve seen relatively little direct discussion about using condoms on TRP and in the “manosphere”. I thought I would make this post to address that.
If you don’t know the girl who you’re about to have the pleasure of fucking, do yourself a favor and use a fucking rubber. The two obvious elements to this are pregnancy and STD’s.
STD’s
Gonorrhea, Herpes, Chlamydia, and god forbid HIV. You don’t want any of this shit, plain and simple. You can get rid of some of them with a course of antibiotics, but viruses are for life. My brain, balls, and dick are my 4 most prized possessions. Use your brain and protect your cock and balls.
If you’re fucking multiple girls every month, get yourself tested regularly. You don’t want to end up in a LTR with a girl you really care about and find out you’re the reason why she got cervical cancer because you didn’t know you had HPV. Even if you wear condoms religiously shit can happen, so get tested, you owe it to yourself.
Pregnancy
The majority of the girls you fuck will probably be on birth control, have an IUD, or use some kind of contraceptive. I’d like to think the majority of girls, at least the younger ones in their 20’s, don’t want to fuck me over and make me their baby daddy. Despite that, wishful thinking isn’t rewarded in the world we live in.
For every few “responsible” birth control and MAP using girls, there’s one who will fuck you over. We’ve all heard the stories. Young slut with a religious family has an epiphany and realizes that she can’t murder her precious baby. Post wall woman lies about being on the pill because she needs a baby, and a baby = your money.
Humans prepare for the worst. You don’t have airbags in your car for getting rear ended by someone going 10mph. You have them for when you hit a patch of black ice on the highway and your car goes flying. For every 10 girls you fuck, you might save your ass with one of them by using a condom. You guys reading this who always use condoms would probably be freaked out if you could see the bullets you’ve already dodged.
A baby is a black hole for your time, finances, even your dreams. It’s an 18 year prison sentence. That woman will have stronger control over your life than a parole officer over a just-released felon. If I had to take one central tenet from TRP, it would be control. A man needs full control to get what he wants in life. That’s why we save money, why we stay in shape, why we build safety nets for ourselves.
Fucking a girl raw is gambling on giving control over your life to her and her baby. You wake up early, hit the gym religiously, work hard, stay organized, etc.? That doesn’t mean shit if you don’t have the willpower to wrap your dick.
Contraceptives in a LTR/marriage are a different conversation.
TLDR: Wrap your dick. Self control is a huge part of TRP. Captain your own ship and don’t give a random girl the power to sink it.
HALFJOR 